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I don't like it when people complain too much, especially when they have nothing to complain about.
Life is not so bad if you work hard. But, some people are never happy no matter how much money they earn or how good their family life is. Always has to be some complaint.
This is my view on people who have it all and still complain.
You don't know how good you have it until life gets worse. Enjoy the life you have, even with the little annoyances and realize that things can always get worse.
I admit that I complain but some people take it too far. that is all they seem to know how to do.
i agree but you always should look who worst than you dont see who is better than you
If you eat every day and live indoors you are luckier than a huge percentage of the world's population that live in poverty situations.
Be thankful for what you have, no matter how little you think it is.
I think people just want to get things off their chest. I have seen that people who want to complain too much end up having more problems. So in such case writing the complains is a good thing. That way people can have their focus set up properly. I have seen people managing just fine this way as well. It depends on how one do that there.
One of my friends has the most perfect happy life, gets everything she asks for including things like happiness and love, and still complains about how bad her life is and how depressed she is about it. I sometimes don't understand this and it frustrates me to know how ungrateful, greedy and much too comfortable can people get. I personally used to complain as a kid but stopped this habit as I grew up and started understanding how it is okay if things don't always go the way you plan. You just need to go with the flow, not complain about everything and be grateful for everything you have.
I agree with this 100%. I get so irritated when people complain especially if there is no reason to. Even if there was a reason to complain, there are better ways to resolve issues than complaining. I always avoid a negative and complaining person. They have so much bad energy around them. When I was working full-time at this company, I was part of a team. A team member was always so negative about tasks. He kept bringing up things that were not really a problem and is always insinuating that management was not treating us well. He got the team in trouble eventually but he was singled out as the trouble maker and was fired.
I have a colleague who has the habit of complaining all the time. That all the time is literal because I don't remember and occasion that she didn't complain. Anyway, when I am not doing anything important, I give her 5 minutes of casual conversation and I also comment on her complaints. But if I have better things to do, I excuse myself to avoid her. Based on what I have learned in our psychology class in college, the complaining may penetrate my being such that I may get affected by the negative thoughts. And I always remember that. Even when watching a movie or tv, I am conscious of the scenes. When there is too much crying, I change channels to avoid the negative effect of those sad scenes.
I must say that once I notice that someone close to me always complains of one situation or the other, I tend to move away from such person. I'm that type of person that enjoys staying close to people with positive mindsets about life no matter how tough ut get in life.
That used to be me. I have to be honest and face it, I used to complain a lot. What did that do to me? nothing good. Just made me feel depressed all the time, watching only the bad side of every situation, and froze me from doing productive and positive things. Until good friends around me made realize this, so I noticed it was me, I was the only one hurting myself by complaining. Seriously, that really hurts and cause emotional damage.